am i being stupid...?

[Nic'n'Keeley]

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[Riley's Mommy]

hun you not being silly. break ups are really hard. and im suprised he got into a relationship so soon.

at the end of the day, you have his baby. your bound to be upset.

((((hugs))))

 

[tuck]

No you're not being stupid, you're being perfectly normal. I am assuming that you have quite a good relationship with his mum and maybe you feel that she's betraying you. 2 months isnt long to get over a break up especially as you have a baby as well.

Give in and have a good cry, it may make you feel better and then give yourself a shake and remember all that you have to look forward to, including your lovely new flat and control of the TV remote!

 

[Alfiesmummy]

oh nic no ur not being stupid, its not your fault you still care it just shows you for the lovely person you are
just giv it more time

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

hun im thinking u need this
it is so hard i know and if u ever need to talk im always here
wen i found out that my ex had a new gf even after a yr it broke my heart again even tho i new it was over, he isnt worth ur tears hun so please dont cry

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

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[TipsyDipsy]

Hun I wouldn't go. I know you like his mum and you want to remain civil to him but you don't have to set yourself up to be confronted before the girl he left you for like that in that family situation and so soon after its happened.
It's only been 8 weeks and its unfair of them to expect you to be put in that situation.
Be polite and just say that you don't think you can cope seeing them together and fear you will break down and ruin the even and that you hope she (his mother) understands. I'm sure she will.

 

[neeko_1]

hi hun, i don't know much about you but this does not sound silly a tall,

i take it he is the father of your little girl!! then you are not stupid, i will feel the same way, it feels like your just all alone in a new flat thinking it will be your families little nest , while his taking his new girlfriend out

even those you are happy you've got your little girl, it some how feels he does not care

babe you are not being silly but a strong WOMEN

if you ever need a girl to chat too i'm here

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

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[Melly+2]

ur not silly sweetie xxxx i am here if you need me xxx

 

[Sabrina]

I don't think you are being silly at all.

He's being very insensitive and a bit of a pr$ck as far as I can see. He left you and your child for this girl You are completely normal to feel hurt, upset, angry etc. I'd be exactly the same.

Maybe for the time being you could just avoid seeing him? Perhaps let him pick up your daughter from somewhere neutral so you don't have to have him in your home? That might help.

It's still early days since the break up so don't expect too much of yourself. In a few months you'll realise you have your whole life ahead of you and you are better off without him.


Sabrina
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[cassi]

Funny how the people who voted yes havnt commented

No its not silly at all!!!!! I would be EXACTLY the same, its really hard getting out of a relationship and just letting go, you cant it takes time...and 2 months isnt THAT long.....I know how it feels hun ive had the same thing before

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

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[Sabrina]

That's great Nic.

I hope things are smoother for you from now on.

Sabrina
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