mollythemama
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Hey,
I am 23 years old, 24 in July. My first baby is due this month. I know I'm not a super young mum, but I often feel it, especially at antenatal classes. I'm definitely the youngest one there, with most people being in their 30's. My partner is 27, but looks younger. I feel as mature as the others but just get a bit self-conscious about my age, like for example when people are talking about the ninetees and I'm like "I was born in the ninetees!!". (Didn't actually say that but I was thinking it).
I find myself trying to avoid the conversation of age.
My mum was 21 and my dad 20 when they first got pregnant and I think people often take after their their parents in what age they choose to have babies.
My midwife was writing my d.o.b the other day and was shocked that I was born in 1992 and started saying how she couldn't believe it was only 4 years before her daughter.
Am I reasonable to feel a bit embarrassed? Anyone else feel similar? Maybe the other way round, where you feel self-conscious about being older?
I am 23 years old, 24 in July. My first baby is due this month. I know I'm not a super young mum, but I often feel it, especially at antenatal classes. I'm definitely the youngest one there, with most people being in their 30's. My partner is 27, but looks younger. I feel as mature as the others but just get a bit self-conscious about my age, like for example when people are talking about the ninetees and I'm like "I was born in the ninetees!!". (Didn't actually say that but I was thinking it).
I find myself trying to avoid the conversation of age.
My mum was 21 and my dad 20 when they first got pregnant and I think people often take after their their parents in what age they choose to have babies.
My midwife was writing my d.o.b the other day and was shocked that I was born in 1992 and started saying how she couldn't believe it was only 4 years before her daughter.
Am I reasonable to feel a bit embarrassed? Anyone else feel similar? Maybe the other way round, where you feel self-conscious about being older?