young mum

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  1. Dee1985

    Dee1985 Well-Known Member

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    hi guys im only 20 and have a 7month old and am now expecting my second child i am in a good relationship with my own home secure job but some times i just feel like i am growing up to fast the last 2yrs now have not been able to go out not get drunk over xmas not goin to be able to celebrate my 21st :( i love being a mum but i think im growing up to fast.... some days i would love to just be imature and i can still have a good time although i have a daughter but now i preg again.. i wouldnt change mylife but sumtimes miss being young, ne one else feel similer
     
  2. Dee1985

    Dee1985 Well-Known Member

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    think im just feelin a bit sorry for myself lol, i go like this in the first 12weeks of pregnancy :oops:
     
  3. Layla

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    hi hun

    i was like that on my first, i was 19 when i got pregnant and 20 when i gave birth, i missed my birthday and xmas celeabrations and felt like i should have been goin gout having fun, but once she was born it was all worth it.

    the first 12 months are very emotional, so dont be to hard on yourself for feeling like this. in a few weeks you will hopfuly feel great

    xxx
     
  4. marylou

    marylou Well-Known Member

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    hiya dionne
    i no ow ya feel
    im 16 and im due with my second 31 october!!! i cant wait
    i feel really young but at the same time i feel like a grown up
    lol xxxxx
     
  5. Dee1985

    Dee1985 Well-Known Member

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    HI marylou yh u are so young, do u cope ok? so how old were you when you first got pregnant? was it planned for u to have to babies so close so young? are you still with your partner? hope u r happy and well :)

    keep intouch!
     
  6. marylou

    marylou Well-Known Member

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    no dionne neither of the babies were planned
    but im just about coping
    i always wanted my kids young (thinking more 20-25 lol)
    im not with kylies dad or bumps dad they both left wen they found out
    i was 14 wen i had kylie i turned 16 on 1st sept!

    hope ur ok xxxxx
     
  7. Dee1985

    Dee1985 Well-Known Member

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    omg wot a great person u sound a bit of bad luck with the dads thou. god u have had to grow up fast but it will be cool wen your first child is 28 u will be well young :) i wish you all the best x x x
     
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    Just think Marylou, you could be a grandma at 28!
     
  9. marylou

    marylou Well-Known Member

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    haha skidoo i lyk the sound of that
    the worlds youngest grandma!!
    ye dionne i have had the worst luck with men :(
    xxxxx
     
  10. Sarah&Braydon

    Sarah&Braydon Well-Known Member

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    although i am 18 i alway was a bit of a big kid at heart and when i found out i was pregnant my b/f of 4 yrs left me my friends didnt wanna know me, as i wouldnt be able to go out etc at there beck and call and since iv had braydon i feel very alone even though i have my family and i have had to grow up very quickly still all a bit strange
     
  11. marylou

    marylou Well-Known Member

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    ye i no wat u mean sarah
    id give nething to just be a kid again
    talk about nothing but boys or makeup or which top goes with my jeans lol
    be a normal 16 year old lol
    c ya xoxox
     
  12. Sarah&Braydon

    Sarah&Braydon Well-Known Member

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    all i talk about think about etc now is braydon
    dont get me wrong i love him to bits but never
    realisedon how much i really would miss out on
     
  13. marylou

    marylou Well-Known Member

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    haha i no wat u mean again lol we are missing out on so much
    just think that when your settling braydon an he wont sleep, i'll be settling 2 kids screaming
    so your lucky in a way lol
    xxxxx
     
  14. Sarah&Braydon

    Sarah&Braydon Well-Known Member

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    that is true how are you coping - id love another kid but no partner and my parents would kick me out but i always wanted to kids close together
     
  15. marylou

    marylou Well-Known Member

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    ye im coping fine (ish) god it is hard tho lol
    yesterday i wated to go out so i tried feeding demi an then putting her in the sling an then putting kylie in the buggy but then kylie decides she wats some apple juice an then demi starts crying an then i change demis nappy an i need to change kylie etc etc..............
    i didnt actually manage to go out!
    its chaos!!!!!!!
    luv marylou
    ps i looked at your pics of braydon an he is the cutest!!
     
  16. Sarah&Braydon

    Sarah&Braydon Well-Known Member

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    thanks how is kylie copin havin a sis ! u got ne pics of demi
     
  17. marylou

    marylou Well-Known Member

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    ye kylie is cpoing fine with her baby sister
    she loves demi you should see them together they are sooooo cute!
    kylie likes demi to hold her fingers lol
    ye ive got some pics of demi and kylie but i dont know how to put them on here ?!?! i will keep trying lol
    luv marylou xxx
     
  18. Sarah&Braydon

    Sarah&Braydon Well-Known Member

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    try photo bucket that is the only way i cld get pix on here lol
     
  19. marylou

    marylou Well-Known Member

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    ok i'll try that next time i have time lol!
     
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    Hi I am kelly i am 23 and expecting my 2nd child! I was 16 when i fell pregnant with my 1st (Not planned :? ) I felt a lot like you are feeling now with my 1st! I dont know about you but i used to feel like people critized young mums and turned thier noses up at us, and this used to get me down lots too!
    I joined a group called the young mums unit an did some college courses there, i waqs there 4 years! I felt it was a lot easier being around people that new what i was going through! I met some really great friends and got a whole lot of new qualifications. It was the best 4 years of my life!
    I supose im just trying to say that it helps to know that there are people in the same boat as us! Young mums get critized a lot and i think that young mums can be just as good mums as older mums!
    I hope everything goes well and im sure you will cope fine!
     

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