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Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by lauralou, Feb 16, 2012.

  1. lauralou

    lauralou Well-Known Member

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    :hug: lovey, you are int he right place for support. It hit me at 20 weeks and my term dates, enough to make me feel a bit poo and rubbish about ttc being on hold. We are finally ttc again and i'm so happy for that but actually glad that I had time to grieve and get over loosing my angel baby. Sometimes its good to just let is out. I've had a few good crys, o n my own, just to get out my system, and then i feel i can face the world again, bottling it up doesn't do any good.

    big:hug: it does get easier, but it will stay with you, we just learn to live with that loss xxxx
     
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    Hi Laura,

    I had my 3rd Miscarriage in early November (at 6w) and all the girls I was briefly in tri 1 with had their 20 week scans a few weeks back....

    As happy I am to know everyone is having a happy and healthy pregnancy, it really hit me. Especially as I am still no closer to having a succesful pregnancy.

    Sometimes I feel like throwing the towel in BUT for the most part I try to keep a positive outlook.

    When the time is right we'll all have our sticky beans sweetheart.

    xxxxxxxxxx
     
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    I was a complete mess the month of my due date, almost crying every day :(
    It's completely normal the way that you feel. Keep coming back here,I wouldn't have make it without the girls here:hug:
     
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    :hugs: my baby would have been due in the next couple of weeks lovely i know how you feel
     
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    Hugs hunny, it is something that will stay with u forever. Losing a baby is so hard and I find it so hard to cope with still now. I keep thinking now that I should have my baby in my arms already and then I start to feel bad that I am wishing away my lil Roo :(

    Stay strong hunny and someone is always here to listen when u feel down :hugs: xxx
     
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    I would have been 20 weeks on feb 14th so I know how you feel too :(
     
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I know what you are going through and have had similar reactions from medical professionals. I wish they would start doing tests after your first one so you possibly do not have to go through a second.

    I had my first miscarriage on 7 November 2011. I was 8 weeks and 2 days a long. I then fell pregnant after my period in December and I also lost that one last weekend at 10weeks and 5 days. It hurts so much we hadn't told anyone at all about the second baby. My husband has started to tell people because I'm a lot more messed up this time around. I'm very scared about May when we are going to try again. I wonder if I'm going to be excited or on edge after we find out we are expecting again.
     

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