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We aren't TTC baby 2 just yet (even though I am VERY broody!) but I just have a few anxieties at the back of my mind concerning the birth of baby 2 when/if it does happen - I shall explain...
I had a fairly smooth pregnancy with my first daughter (born May last year) until the very end when I was sent off to hospital with slightly high blood pressure and they decided to induce me - DON'T READ IF EXPECTING AND NERVOUS (this isn't what normally happens)
I reacted badly to the pessary straight away within about 20 mins I was having forced contractions one after the other but didn't know if I was overreacting ?? (I could hear other women in the ward laughing and chatting away with their partners) but I was keeled over...anyway eventually they realised I had started reacting straight away and thus I had to lie still whilst my baby was monitored overnight (she was fine but I wasn't OUCH)...they came several times during the night each time I told them how much pain I was in - I was given paracetamol and codeine. By the morning I was exhausted and in tears when my partner arrived...I was advised to try to rest again by the midwife (which I was trying my best to do!!)
A few minutes later I think despite all the will in the world my body just lost control and I started to hyper-react to the pessary (multiple contractions) I ended up in a ball on the floor - the team rushed in and removed the pessary (finally!!) and I was wheeled off to the labour ward.
After that I actually started to feel so much better, I even managed to have a wash and a chat with my partner and the midwife...I started to get my own normal contractions which I could deal with on gas and air..that was a breeze compared to what had just happened. We waited for a few hours but unfortunately my own contractions weren't strong enough quickly enough and I hadn't dilated enough so they decided I needed the drip....considering what happened with the pessary I thought it was best to have an epidural and I'm glad I did.
The epidural was amazing! I could still feel my contractions and move my legs but no pain..aaah bliss. All was going well until the end when I was very nearly fully dilated my baby girl started to get distressed and her heart rate dropped so again the team rushed in and whisked us off for an emergency c section. Despite all that this is the most scary part for me - during my c section I lost quite a lot of blood and had to have 2 bags of blood via a transfusion...my partner said he saw the light go out of my eyes and I was so out of it I literally thought I would only have the chance to kiss my daughter and I was a gonner. I couldn't breath and could feel the epidural right up to my collar bone!! I had dissociated myself from the scene as well because it was too traumatic (I was actually singing a song in my head the whole time).
I'm really sorry for anyone getting totally freaked out reading this! It does get better now promise - my baby girls apgar score was 6 so the medical team had made the right choice in the end and she is perfectly beautiful and healthy...Although I was pale and weak and I couldn't breast feed I made a swift and full recovery and was totally elated and no problems since...
apart from the fear of losing that much blood again. I was told after that I would be able to have an elective c section and be consultant led if I want another baby.
My question to you ladies is - has anyone else had a similar trauma with baby 1 but a nice and lovely stress free planned c section with baby 2? haha Anyone? Please?
We aren't TTC baby 2 just yet (even though I am VERY broody!) but I just have a few anxieties at the back of my mind concerning the birth of baby 2 when/if it does happen - I shall explain...
I had a fairly smooth pregnancy with my first daughter (born May last year) until the very end when I was sent off to hospital with slightly high blood pressure and they decided to induce me - DON'T READ IF EXPECTING AND NERVOUS (this isn't what normally happens)
I reacted badly to the pessary straight away within about 20 mins I was having forced contractions one after the other but didn't know if I was overreacting ?? (I could hear other women in the ward laughing and chatting away with their partners) but I was keeled over...anyway eventually they realised I had started reacting straight away and thus I had to lie still whilst my baby was monitored overnight (she was fine but I wasn't OUCH)...they came several times during the night each time I told them how much pain I was in - I was given paracetamol and codeine. By the morning I was exhausted and in tears when my partner arrived...I was advised to try to rest again by the midwife (which I was trying my best to do!!)
A few minutes later I think despite all the will in the world my body just lost control and I started to hyper-react to the pessary (multiple contractions) I ended up in a ball on the floor - the team rushed in and removed the pessary (finally!!) and I was wheeled off to the labour ward.
After that I actually started to feel so much better, I even managed to have a wash and a chat with my partner and the midwife...I started to get my own normal contractions which I could deal with on gas and air..that was a breeze compared to what had just happened. We waited for a few hours but unfortunately my own contractions weren't strong enough quickly enough and I hadn't dilated enough so they decided I needed the drip....considering what happened with the pessary I thought it was best to have an epidural and I'm glad I did.
The epidural was amazing! I could still feel my contractions and move my legs but no pain..aaah bliss. All was going well until the end when I was very nearly fully dilated my baby girl started to get distressed and her heart rate dropped so again the team rushed in and whisked us off for an emergency c section. Despite all that this is the most scary part for me - during my c section I lost quite a lot of blood and had to have 2 bags of blood via a transfusion...my partner said he saw the light go out of my eyes and I was so out of it I literally thought I would only have the chance to kiss my daughter and I was a gonner. I couldn't breath and could feel the epidural right up to my collar bone!! I had dissociated myself from the scene as well because it was too traumatic (I was actually singing a song in my head the whole time).
I'm really sorry for anyone getting totally freaked out reading this! It does get better now promise - my baby girls apgar score was 6 so the medical team had made the right choice in the end and she is perfectly beautiful and healthy...Although I was pale and weak and I couldn't breast feed I made a swift and full recovery and was totally elated and no problems since...
apart from the fear of losing that much blood again. I was told after that I would be able to have an elective c section and be consultant led if I want another baby.
My question to you ladies is - has anyone else had a similar trauma with baby 1 but a nice and lovely stress free planned c section with baby 2? haha Anyone? Please?