Worried!

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  1. Louise Batey

    Louise Batey New Member

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    Hi, no judgment please.
    I met someone early February & had protected sex, just casual nothing serious & we were safe about it. Met someone else a couple weeks later, had my period on 20th February, heavy & clots slightly short then usual but sometimes that happens right? Later had unprotected sex with other guy & found out i was pregnant on 20th March, I am estimated around 5 weeks & I know the later guy is the dad but I am super paranoid it could be the other one, even after using protection & having a period! Anything to put my mind at ease ‍♀️
     
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    rb101 Well-Known Member

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    protected sex and a period seems like you could make a safe assumption that it would be the second guy but weirder things have happened. I guess if you're having some doubts now they'll always be there so best thing to do would be to DNA test once baby arrives it's the only 100% way to say for certain
     
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    Louise Batey New Member

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    At the beginning I had no issues, don’t know if I’m just overthinking it when I really don’t need to be
     
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    Louise Batey New Member

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    The dates even add up with the 2nd guy of conception so I think I am just overthinking but just wanted to ease my mind with some opinions
     
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    rb101 Well-Known Member

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    I'm just trying to give you the best reassurance I can. You can safely assume the father and it is highly likely it is the second guy but like I said stranger things have happened with ladies and pregnancies, I.e. suprise pregnancies after using protection or pregnancies after a 'period' that turned out to be a heamtoma.

    You'll have a clearer idea when you go for your dating scan. But if you have a shred of doubt beyond that then DNA really is the only way to know 100%. Good luck
     
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    Louise Batey New Member

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    Yeah absolutely! Dating from my previous period I would be further gone then 5 weeks if it was the first guy. But like you say, thing can happen. Thank you for your help
     

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