I plan on going back to work when Poppy is 1. We aren't particularly well-off, and we're getting married in a year so need all the money we can get! BUT I know if I went back now I would regret it for the rest of my life. I just don't want to miss out on her first year of life, and am prepared to stay in and stick to a very tight budget in order to do that. Luckily my mother-in-law could afford to take early retirement and now doesn't work (She's only 47!) so when I do go back to work she said she's happy to look after Poppy. I'll only go back part-time, mind.