My Dh and me are thinking of having a second child. Joseph is 13 months now, we get married in July and was thinking of trying after the wedding. Ideally I wanted to wait a couple of years but DH is 41, 10 yrs older than me and doesnt want to be too old. We live in a 2 up 2 down which is in a lovely area and is a beautiful house but small, we cant move for a couple of years because we need to pay off a couple of loans so that we will be comfortable when we do move. I work in a baby shop so am quite brudy anyway but i'm worried that if we do have one soon I wont be able to cope in a small house with them sharing a room? Is it really hard having 2 close together? I dont want to regret not having another and I dont want joseph to be on his own, he does have a step sister but she is 19 and lives in another city so its not the same is it. I dont know what to do.