My baby boy is nearly 4 months but still doesn't go to sleep by his self. He needs to be rocked and screams as soon as he realises what I'm trying to do despite being tired. THis Is at nap times and bed time. Now I can't get him to sleep unless he's on me in bed and it still takes about an hour. He generally Will wake at every 2-4 hours and I feel like everyone else's babies are happy mapping and sleeping through and I'm being a bad mum as we've not got it sorted. It's affecting my relationship as my husband and I never get any alone time as lo won't go to bed without us. We have a consistent bedtime routine and when I do get IIo to nap he gets lots of sleep in. The day. When Will he and how can I encourage him to fall asleep by his self?