So I'm now 12dpo, af due Monday and over the last week I pave had the following symptoms... Lower back pain Period type pain Tiredness Headaches boardering on migraine Pinkish/brownish cm Mild nausea occasionally Lack of usual spotting up to 7 days before af So Thursday I finally told OH about lack of spotting. Yesterday I posted on here about holding out to test and because of the lack of spotting. Last night OH and I allowed ourselves to get a bit excited. But this morning when I wiped there was a small amount of bright red cm. So I think I'm out. As is often the case when I think I'm out I get a overwhelming desire to POAS so I did and got a BFN! I'm gutted. I don't have years to mess about (I'm 40) and I really started to dare to believe this was my month. Which is particularly surprising as just over a week ago I had a scan which revel possible PCO so i thought no chance and wasn't even really thinking about it. Then all the symptoms started! Just feel its so not fair!