Ok so have you ever thought that if you werent who you are would you be anyone else? Weither they are fictional or a real person? Sorry im sad i know but i have often thought this to myslef if wasnt me who id be so........... The fact is if i thought about it long and hard then a few years back i wouldn't have wanted to be who i was then but now i'd just rather be me no one else as im so happy with who i am and the way that things have turned out for me i couldnt of ever imagined that id be the person i am today ( a mother, a lover and a good friend to all)