when to stop bd?

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Just as the title says really, when do you stop bd each month? If you bd on ov day, do you assume your in the 2ww then?
 
This is something I always wonder about and then panic that I've got the dates a day wrong for cycle etc. Had only slight cramping two days ago from left side this month, last month I got better pains on the right for egg coming out.

We just bed again today incase my period start date should have been the day after as bleeding was light that day, incase that changes start of cycle dates, but you could go on forever wondering, just one more day.....

I read that the egg is only good for 24-48 hours after Ovulation, so small window after OV.
 
its hard to know.. think i'll still bd right up until af to fool myself into im still ttc and then my 2ww will fly in. plus, theres always a chance to conceive any day. Your just right though, better to do it again today to be safe. it would be great if we both got pregnant this month!
 
We keep going right from beginning to end. Obviously we step up the game in the middle but the first week and the last week are just for fun, to keep it from just about making babies and just in case we get lucky. ;)
 
We keep going right from beginning to end. Obviously we step up the game in the middle but the first week and the last week are just for fun, to keep it from just about making babies and just in case we get lucky. ;)

Sounds great to me!
 
Yeah PP , that would be great wouldn't it! New year babies all the way, now that's a way to start the year in

Kizzibea - great idea to keep the sex happy, but my OH is already telling me some tall tales about how his balls are running on empty now, he says the cupboards are bare!!!
 
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We keep going right from beginning to end. Obviously we step up the game in the middle but the first week and the last week are just for fun, to keep it from just about making babies and just in case we get lucky. ;)

Same for us too xx
 
We have sex every other day throughout the month, This month though I stepped it up to every day around OV, Poor hubby was knackered!!!
Fingers crossed it worked though!!!
 
I was only BD up until the day i ov but i got my ov date wrong :wall2:. So this month we are going to BD every 2nd day this week then every day next week so hopefully we catch that egg. I think i am due to ov on 28th but i am going to start using OPK tomorrow to make sure. No sign of any EWCM as yet but CM is definately getting thinner so must be a good sign :lol:
 
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Weve usually stopped after ovualtion time and for the most silly reason really!! Dont laugh!! But when I was pregnant with DD 17 years ago....we were then advised to not have sex in the first 3 months....so as Im watching things so closely....IF we were to be pregnant I am paranoid about causing any harm although I have since read that sex cant hurt or damage it that early on as its too small and to far out of the way!! Im not convinced tho and obviously dont want to take any chances but I know my reasons are crazy!!!

Having said that.....I Ov'd on 20th...Tues...and were going to grab a session later today and prob just every other day as we said this being first time since MC we would be casual about it all so fingers crossed!!!

XXX
 
That's interesting wilma. What are everyone else thoughts on sex during pregnancy
 
I would say it's totally fine if you take it easy.
 
I'm with Wilma, once up the duff, nothing till after the scan! I had sex last time at 8 weeks ish and then I had spotting the next day! so just for peace of mind really.
 
Yeah JJ its possible outdated info but its stuck in my mind and like you say its precaution rather than anything else....so David making the most of getting it when he wants atm coz once Im preggas again its back to 'show me yours and I'll show you mine'! Ha!! lol xxx
 
I've got such a high sex drive I don't think I'd be able to wait from the 2WW through to the 12wk scan!!

I want sex all the time! Everyday would be great! twice a day would be even better!!
 
I'm with Wilma, once up the duff, nothing till after the scan! I had sex last time at 8 weeks ish and then I had spotting the next day! so just for peace of mind really.

Yes ive had that before except I had a big bleed (about 2 days after sex) but everything was fine and the doctors didn't really know why. But for some reason I really wanted sex at the start of my last pregnancy :oooo:
 

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