When is it my turn?!

Discussion in 'Long Term TTC & Fertility Issues' started by Poppy1987, Jan 11, 2012.

  1. Poppy1987

    Poppy1987 Well-Known Member

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    I have been ttc since april 2011. I have just been told a friend is 2 months pg. She got preg on her FIRST month of trying. To say I'm upset is an understatement. She doesn't know I'm ttc so I'm not blaming her. I am happy for her and I'm showing I'm happy just inside it really hurts! X

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  2. itisbabytime

    itisbabytime Well-Known Member

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    :hugs:hi poppy, we all in here have been trough this, probably more than once. the ones that get me the most are the people who "werent even trying that hard". ughhh well jealous. :(
     
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    Since my OH and I started TTC, two of my dear friends have gone to to have little boys! They both found out they were preggers in late April, I got my BFP on 4th May !

    I went on to have 3 miscarriages and they got healthy pregnancies and beautiful babies.

    I'd not wish my situation on anyone and of course I am thrilled my friends babies both arrived safe and sound BUT it does make me feel a little sad [if I let myself think about what "could have been " for me...]

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  4. Poppy1987

    Poppy1987 Well-Known Member

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    Thanks for your replys. I hope I didn't offend anyone as I know you guys in hear have been trying longer than me I just needed to get my feelings out while at work. Going to go home tonight for a long hot soak in the bath and relax. Xxx

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    Hi Poppy, we're here whenever you need to vent. Totally understand how you're feeling, so many emotions, sadness, jealously, happiness, guilt, panic....it's normal to feel this way. It can take up to a year to conceive so don't stress yet, sure it's gonna happen for you soon xxx
     
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    Gizzy Kelly Well-Known Member

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    Hi Poppy welcome to PF. :)

    We do all understand how hard it is when our nearest and dearest announce their news. It is really difficult. Try and remember that it will be your turn soon.

    I am not sure what you have been doing to TTC but let us know if there is any advice we can give you.

    Hugs

    Lots of love Gizzy xxxxx
     
  7. greekgirl84

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    Hi Poppy,
    I have been trying for 18 months and everyone around me is just 'unplanned' falling pregnant so i know the feeling. i see preg women and are so jealous. 2 of my friends told me last week they are 5 weeks pregnant. I was so down yest i sent off for adoption information. I so want to be a mum. But think i want to be pregnant to is that selfish :(
     

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