I feel like I can't plan anything! No holidays, no job change, nothing! (I would change my job if I could, but the benfits will be so fab, as i've been there 7 years now). I'm going to a concert in June - but it took me ages to agree to go - just in case! Is it right to put plans on hold, when we're not even pregnant? The In-Laws have asked us to go away with them later in the year, but I've had to say no, and come up with an excuse! Am I going mad?