Peanut, I am gutted for you, life is so bloody hard sometimes, I have had two Missed Miscarriages & two D&C's, with the 2nd MMC I was expecting twins we had seen heartbeats at 8 weeks but at our 10weeks scan both babies at no heartbeat. My consultant recommended having a D&C so they could run tests to try and determine why we had the MMC (I also had a D&C after my first MMC at 11 weeks.)
Prior to my D&c's I had never been to hospital so I was quite nervous about the General Anaesthetic, however I found the procedure itself straight forward, the emotional side of losing the Pregnancies was the tough part.
Went to hospital early & fasting, they placed a very small tablet in to soften cervix, then I was brought to theatre and given the GA, I felt no pain at all, took about 20minutes then I woke up & returned to ward, then waited at hour in bed waiting for tea & toast, then they checked no etc and I was checked out in the late afternoon, I had very light spotting , but no cramps.
For me it brought closure in a controlled environment. Sending you lots of strength & hugs xxxLouise