What happens to you after unprotected sex?

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  1. emma_85

    emma_85 Well-Known Member

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    Hi

    I'm concerned after many months of ttc that after unprotected sex, I have a lot of his fluid that seems to just run right out of me. I realise this may be tmi. Sorry.

    We've tried different positions, legs in air after deed, change in diet, exercise - you name it we've tried it. It's been fun in an experimental way but I'm just aware that after doing the deed I have a lot of my husbands fluid that is just trickling out if me as soon as he pulls out virtually. I have always had a very slight burning/tingling sensation afterwards. It isn't uncomfortable but I do feel it and have always thought it is a sign that there is something new in there!!

    I'm going stir crazy and probably over thinking things but it'd be good to hear from others about their experiences.

    I do have a 4, nearly 5 year old son and he was literally first hit. I guess I assumed that this would be the case 2nd time round.

    would be most grateful to hear from others.
     
  2. emma_85

    emma_85 Well-Known Member

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    I'm onto month 10 of ttc number 2, after falling pregnant pretty easily with first child! We've tried everything you've listed, and still nothing. I always say to hubby I've no idea how I could get pregnant when that much 'falls out' but it obviously does work because he's got me pregnant twice :lol: After BD I just lie down as long as I can and I find there's less falling out after. Regarding the burning sensation I'm not sure, if that's new I'd possibly get it checked at GP.

    Good luck :) xx
     
  4. MrsLaw

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    hey,

    I read somewhere that its to do with the pressure and force that the sperm shoots out. The cervix is pretty small so imagine shooting a hose at a small hole in a wall, the excess that doesn't go through the cervix runs out the vagina...sorry TMI! lool

    It's normal apparently but maybe google it x
     
  5. Lottie Tobe

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    I had the same question....thanks Mrs Law
     
  6. emma_85

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    Thanks ladies. It's somewhat refreshing to hear that it is normal and does happen. I just felt a bit unsure whether it was going in with the amount that falls out. It's a tricky subject to talk about as it seems far too much info.

    I think burning was a bit strong, more tingling sensation tbh.

    Fingers crossed I have some swimmers up there. Good luck to you ladies too x
     
  7. Clover

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    That is a great way of explaining it :lol:
    I use a mooncup to keep it all in but I don't think it makes any difference, its just nice to not get leakage

    xxxxx
     
  8. emma_85

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    What is a moon cup?
     

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