Went to the Dr's again today

[monster_munch]

Was up all night last night in agony again. This time it was my left ear Bloody typical.
Anyway - went back to the Doctors and I now know why my ears are so painful (and why I can barely hear anything) - I have ear infections in both ears and both my ear drums are perforated.
So I am now on a course of anti-biotics and have a large stash of paracetamol.
So much for trying to be drug free - this pregnancy has been drug fuelled

Not impressed - especially as I am very pee-ed off with DH.
He has a work do tonight that wifes are invited to. Obviously it's difficult to get a babysitter for our daughter as we only like her to go to family or our good friends. Family are 2 hour drive away and good friends have just announced they are getting divorced so the hubby has moved out.
I said I would still ask her, but if I sense she's not 100% then I won't.
I hadn't had a chance to ask and casually said to DH what time it was on tonight. Apparently they have booked a minibus for the guys going and it will pick him up at 7 and drop him back home at 11. Plus, is it OK if one of his mates stays over so he doesn't have to get a taxi home?
OMG - he nearly got slaughtered - so I wasn't invited after all, and now I get a fun packed evening with our toddler who is quite hard work at the moment, never mind when you're 33 weeks pregnant and have an (well 2 ) ear infection(s).

Oh and to cap it all off - he is currently having a nap as he is tired.
WTF???? He was snoring away last night while I was writhing around in pain
He is so close to being murdered right now... I can feel my blood pressure rising.

Anyway... breathe!!
Christ how long is this post - it was only supposed to be about my ears

 

[Babylicious]

Oh no poor you, I hate ear infections As for your OH he needs a kick up the arse, I'd not allow him to go

 

[monster_munch]

Oh and he has 2 days of work now so I was hoping maybe for some help down the stables today (he keeps aforementinoned toddler in check so I can get on with things) but I just went into the bedroom and he huffed and moaned like a bloody teenager so looks like I'm going to do that alone too

Seriously, I love him to bits but today I could do him some serious harm.

 

[Babylicious]

Put her in the room with him and just go out. I've done that to sean before now

 

[girlygirl]

Put her in the room with him and just go out. I've done that to sean before now

good idea

 

[fifi211]

MM have some hugs

Ear infections are nasty, I hate them. Can also sympathise with the OH thing although mine is treading carefully atm

You are unwell and need rest and should be able to have a soak in the bath, and go to bed early tonight while your OH looks after your daughter

 

[muppetmummy]

Aww, hope your ears are better soon.

Sounds like your DH owes you a baby shopping trip!

 

[DebbieM]

Hope you start to feel better soon!

 

[monster_munch]

Thanks for the hugs - just noticed 20 stretchmarks have come up out of nowhere. Must be stress related stretchers

Had a word with DH - he said that I wasn't going to make him feel guilt about him going out once in a blue moon WTF our daughter is nearly 2 and I have been out 5 times - 3 of which were with him and the other 2 were for my best friends hen night (at pizza hut - LOL!) and one night out to see our favourite singer at our local. We've moved since then so I don't see her anymore. In fact, I haven't been on a night out in a year.

Sorry - this is an incredibly self indulgent post

I'm going to wait for him and his mate to go out - but DD to bed and then have a good cry. Feel like I need to let all this pent up emotion out somehow.
If he comes home p!ssed tonight I won't be held responsible for my actions!

 

[libs]

move closer to me and I'll have her - or even better he can have her and we'll go out

alternatively wait up for him and friend wearing a cropped top to show off all your new stretchmarks and embarrass him by going on about your piles and mucous plug.

I only have to mention the word cervix to get my own way nowadays - he agrees to anything so long as I don't go any further.....

 

[Kimbo]

Put her in the room with him and just go out. I've done that to sean before now

good idea

 

[debecca]

No wonder you were in so much pain, poor you

Hope your ears get better soon and that your OH manages to redeem himself...