We were at the docs the other day & happened to mention that we are trying, & she was great. She said if we wanted to go in in the new year, there are lots of tests they can do before we've been trying for a year, so if it comes to referral to the hospital, she can refer us dead on a year!! I thought that was really good, as we hadn't given it a thought, & didn't think they would do anything until we had been trying for at least a year.
How often do you BD? We are doing it every day. I have read in some books that every other day is more benficial, & some dispute that. Its hard to know what to do for the best as there is so much conflicting info, but hopefully being relaxed about it will work for us!!