I just need to rant! My OH has been off work this week and oh my god it's been a nightmare! We've done nothing but argue cos of how he is with LO. LO has been unsettled all week, which I think is in part due to changing his formula to the anti-reflux stuff, but also cos OH has been here. When LO starts crying he's always like 'oh for gods sake' and 'what now' and 'stop crying'. I feel like he's always on edge when he gets upset which puts me on edge and makes the whole thing worse. I hate how he is with LO, in my day he's the top priority, I always talk to him, play with him, carry him and cuddle him. I generally do bits around his naps etc. I feel like with OH he is just not interested in our son at all. He's just there while he does something else like watch telly, do housework, play on his phone etc. He never talks to him on walks and it drives mad! I shouldn't expect anything more really, his family are cold and show no emotion, so he's had no one to learn from. I got so upset about it the other day and OH promised me things would improve. Today LO was back to his happy self, probably cos it was me who got him up today. But while I was upstairs I heard LO getting grumpy after being on his mat too long, wanting to be held. OH put him in bouncer while he hung the washing up instead. This has resulted in a screaming fit from LO, OH getting annoyed and the pair of us having a screaming match. LO wouldn't take his feed and is now asleep on me. He's so unsettled he won't let me put him down! OH accused me of undermining him, but I'm not just gonner sit there while my son is crying cos he wants a hug and daddy is too busy! Aaarrrggghhh! I just want him to piss off back to work so LO and I can get back to normal!