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Usually we have sex all the time but for the last 2 months or so my OH isn't that bothered. I feel really upset that he doesn't want to :(
 
Sometimes my OH isn't bothered either.. I doubt it's because of anything that you've done.

P'haps you could just mention it and see what he says, maybe he's having extra stress at work, or tired?

It won't be because of you darlin x :hug:
 
alot of men feel pressured when you are TTC - maybe speak to him and see if he is ok?
 
Or alternatively pamper him in-house for the evening - make him a nice dinner or get him a rose or something.. make him feel special, then appear dressed in something very rood looking :)

(worth a try, sometimes men can be very basic after all :))
 
Tell him you want it, and if he doesnt then next time he does he aint getting it.

Thats what i tell DH :rotfl:
 
My hubbie has a much lower drive than me. He could go for months without being interested then all of a sudden have a rush where he wants it all the time. He is quite stressed though with work and always takes his work home with him (ie last night he kept making notes on his mobile in bed of things he needed to remember to do today up till around 3 am when he finally fell asleep). So you might want to see if this is causing a problem.

Also if you're TTCing he might have just had a flash of future fatherhood and felt a bit paniky...(it happens to everyone) And this is something you will have to discuss with him.

Usually I get very fustrated and we end up arguing over the fact he hasn't touched me for several weeks and I'm feeling fat, frumpy and ugly, and I find out all the things that have been bothering him. Things usually get better after that (for a little while). Other times I just talk to him about it or spend a long time teasing him (talking days here) till he finally gets the picture.

Men are strange creatures. :rotfl:
 
Just sit down and have a chat with him over dinner or something, hes your husband and youl know the right time to approch him x

Good luck
 
I've talked to him and he just throws a strop, makes me feel all unwanted.

Time to think of a new tactic :rotfl:

Can't be the fatherhood thing as we already have paris!

Thanks girls
 
go get some lovely sexy underwear.. alex was getting a little liek that after our honeymoon antics.. so i bought durex ky tingle..:) that did the trick.. and we concieved that month he loved it and wanted it more than i did..good luck..
 
:shock: :shock: Is it good?...certainly looks it :lol: :lol: :lol: :twisted:

Arent i glad its my bday coming up :dance:
 

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