I am early 40s with two teenage girls, separated but not yet divorced. I am 6 weeks pregnant by my friend who is married - his wife lives in another country & they have no children, but would want to in the future. I fell in love with him, but not him me - he loves his wife & was upfront about us not having a future. I am pleased at the prospect of number 3, it's probably my last chance but; My friend will want to abort because of the problems it will cause him My estranged husband will be devestated My family will disapprove I am fearful health wise as I'm older & previously suffered with a mental health issue but with someone on side I would cope & do not really want to terminate. I am worried however about the impact on the people I love. Can anyone help?