Dovekie
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I currently live 2.5 hours from my family, which hasn't been a problem as a single, childless person. My boyfriend lives 2 hours from my family and I planned to move there before the birth as he has his own house. We both want to move shortly after though as the house isn't really suitable for a child.
His parents live in the opposite direction to mine. He wants to move closer to them and to where he grew up, which closes the distance for his family (who are only currently about 45 minutes away) but extends it for mine. I have suggested moving just 30 minutes closer to my parents and he said that's ridiculous.
I'm so annoyed. I'm already hundreds of miles from my family, and want him to compromise just a little, but he won't consider it. I actually just feel like ending the relationship and moving to be with my family :/
Do I have a valid point here? Does he get to live wherever he wants to, near to all of his friends and family, whilst I have an extra long drive to visit mine, with a baby in tow?!
His parents live in the opposite direction to mine. He wants to move closer to them and to where he grew up, which closes the distance for his family (who are only currently about 45 minutes away) but extends it for mine. I have suggested moving just 30 minutes closer to my parents and he said that's ridiculous.
I'm so annoyed. I'm already hundreds of miles from my family, and want him to compromise just a little, but he won't consider it. I actually just feel like ending the relationship and moving to be with my family :/
Do I have a valid point here? Does he get to live wherever he wants to, near to all of his friends and family, whilst I have an extra long drive to visit mine, with a baby in tow?!