TTC after a M/C

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hi all, i had a m/c 2 wks ago u may have read my thread in m/c section, i know its only early days but i really want to try for another. i know all the books an docs say wait till next AF so u know dates etc, but i dunno if i can wait, i know ur more fertile after a m/c an im scared i wont get pg again if i wait as we were ttc for a yr an half with the one i m/c. i dont want to sound heartless as if ive forgotten the one ive losed cos believe me i really haven't, but im terrified if i wait i wont conceive again.
so is it ok i spose is the question im askin does anyone know??
so sorry for woffling.
xx
 
so sorry to hear about your M/c thinking of you and your OH right now, i don't think i could wait either to try again but thats my view i'm not sure what the best advice is.
 
They advise you to wait so your body can return to normal. Usually they say after your next 'normal' bleed (period) from what I can gather.

I've had a hell time this past 6 weeks after my lose & at the moment I am getting sore boobs again n ratty. I am seriously hoping it’s my period.

Like you we didn’t wait or use any protection but now I'm sat here wandering if I've managed to conceive again quickly or it's an actually period, I am worried. I fear if I have conceived again & I loose another baby it will be my fault for not giving my body time.

Pretty new to this game even after my nightmare so I hope I don’t scare you I just know that’s what I’m personally feeling now.

Just make sure you know possibilities & its what you want to do.

x
 
i just dunno what to do to be honest, i feel almost desperate to be pg again. like u im terrified of losing another baby especially after what happened on friday morning, passin the baby sorry if tmi, i have a re scan on 2/5 i was gonna wait till then maybe i should??? i just think its the way im feelin at the min, obviously im not fully over it maybe i need to give myself more time!
i told myself to take one day at a time after the m/c but yet im tryin to rush things an make plans. im gonna give it till after re scan i think!
right i will stop goin on!
xx
 
Go on as much as you like - You obviously haven't seen my 6 pages :lol:

I feel your pain I really do - I had 6 weeks of hell before it was over but 6 hrs or 6 weeks I wouldn't wish it on anybody.

The scans are awful. Are you attending the early pregnancy unit? It was hard to keep my head above water especially when I seen proud mums to be holding their tummy’s but if you tell yourself you can get through it YOU WILL. It doesn’t mean your pain is any less or you will forget you’re nearly to be it just means you don't melt into a wreck. I nearly did towards the end but managed to pick myself up.

If anything be emotionally ready for YOU!

x
 
yeah its at the early pregnancy unit, dont really want to go but i will for definate, what is it like then?? i havent really thought about the scan?
also i wud like to say sorry for the hard time uve been through too! and thanks for giving me some advice.
xx
 
I found a few of the girls appeared distressed being there to be honest. You can never tell if there’s a problem like you or a possibility of a problem. But of course it's in the maternity ward.

Do you mean what is the scan like?

The nurses were lovely at my hospital it was the staffing when I was admitted that I have a complaint about.

Thanks :D It makes us stronger in the end :wink: But honestly I do hope I haven't got caught straight away so take a breather for yourself while you are feeling low.

How old are you if you don't mind me asking? I ask, as I didn't understand why you said you are worried you won't get PG again.
 
im 25, the reason i say im scared of not gettin pg again is cos it took over a yr to conceive before my m/c. i have just got it im my head that ill never have another child, i am puttin it down to the way i feel, but its not nice.
OH said back in jan this is our yr, turns out its not with the lose of baby an now the plant where he works is to close down next yr so hes out of a job!
i spose i have so much goin on in my life at the min im just not thinkin straight!
good luck to u an i hope everythin turns out ok for u.
xx
 

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