hi, new to this site, hope someone can help. my dh had a sucessful vasectomy reversal last june and we have been ttc ever since with no luck. my cycle is anywhere from 28 to 32 days long, I ovulated somewhere between the 8th & 12th may, had a pap smear on 12th may then light spotting 2 days later nothing to do with the smear as I asked the nurse, started to get leg spasms the last couple of nights and toe cramps plus I feel queesy only when I go to bed, if that wasn't enought to put up with i have had the worst headache for 3 days which pain killers don't shift. The last time I had a headache like this i was expecting my first son and that was 16yrs ago, but I had no symptoms with my second son and found out by accident when I was 4 1/2 months gone. We would love a baby together as this is our second marriage and we have both got 2 sons each from our first relationships. I am very confused any suggestions?????