Ok, so since my m/c early this year, we've pretty much TTC ever since. My cycle is still all over the place and I have no idea where I am up to with it all! I also don't really have any cm to gauge it....but I've been really fixated on it all. To the point where I'm stressing myself out, particularly when my period comes along. Last month when it arrived, I actually felt that I had failed. I've never felt that bad before. So I think I going to not look at my ovia app (gonna be difficult!) and just see what happens...taking the 'try to relax' approach.... You hear so many stories of people conceiving once they'd stopped trying, if you know what I mean. Anybody else trying to just see what happens and not stress? Any hints?