Tri 2 fraud

[catty1]

Hi all, I think I'm due in here now as I'm 13 weeks today but it feels a bit wrong as I haven't had my scan yet. It's tomorrow and tbh I'm bricking it. I've had numerous small bleeds, I can't find a hb on my Doppler and I have had a previous mmc discovered at 12 week scan stage. I just hope everything is ok.
Pointless post really but just wanted to say hi x

 

[Lauren84]

Never a pointless post In here Hun! I have everything crossed for u for tomorrow, hope all will be ok keep us posted xx

 

[Pippa1703]

Hi catty, what time is your scan, ill be keeping an eye out for your update best of luck xxx

 

[amygates88]

Good luck just try And think positive xx

 

[MrsHop]

Catty I'm also 13 weeks today, I've had a scan and still feel a fraud! It feels too early!

Keeping everything crossed for you xx

 

[LucyD]

Hi, I have only just joined tri 2 at 13 weeks 4 days as only had scan on monday & they put me forward by 4 days. Wishing you all the best. I was also nervous as hell but I wanted to be excited. Its mixed emotions as its a day when you get see your baby for the first time but that dred that its not ok does overcome you. Sure all will be fine & good luck for tom x

 

[catty1]

Thanks all,

The scan is at half 2 tomorrow I think but I might not be able to update until the evening. I'm feeling a bit more confident now as I had a last ditch attempt to find the hb on my doppler and I'm pretty sure I found it

 

[H16]

Welcome to tri 2 hun, I really hope your scan goes well for you tomorrow, will look out for your update xx

 

[JJ Mum]

Hi catty welcome to trimester two, i remember following your sons pregnancy!!

dont worry we all have that fraud like few weeks like is this really happening or fid i just make it up! Ive only just annouced on facebook today as i felt wrong!!

Ive had a bad 12 week scan in the past too, so know how you feel, i imagine the chances if it happening twice to same lady are trillions to one hun, try and relax a bit, im sure yourll have the lovely scanning experiance you missed out on before, enjoy x

 

[Rebecca89]

welcome and good luck tomorrow xxx

 

[ChloeSmith]

Good luck for your scan! Xx

 

[charlotte89]

Hi all, I think I'm due in here now as I'm 13 weeks today but it feels a bit wrong as I haven't had my scan yet. It's tomorrow and tbh I'm bricking it. I've had numerous small bleeds, I can't find a hb on my Doppler and I have had a previous mmc discovered at 12 week scan stage. I just hope everything is ok.
Pointless post really but just wanted to say hi x

hi catty
i had the very same issues , didnt have my scan until i was nearly 13 weeks and just when i thought i was out the danger zone i had a couple of bleeds .
as long as you know yourself that you arent losing clots or filling out those big tampons you know theres nothing to worry about.
easier said than done i know thats why i had to go ring up the early pregnancy unit just to be checked out. i did this twice , bet they thought i was mental lol but in the end the advise a friend gave to me made a lot of sense.
she told me some women stretch more than others at first on their uterus and this is where the lil bleeds come from. i have always been quite big around my tummy from the start of my pregnancy so i assumed this had something to do with it.
moral of the story.. just ring the midwife and get yourself checked straight away, and as long as your not losing a lot of blood dont think the worst. bleeding in pregnancy is becoming more and more common it doesnt necessarily mean anythings wrong x

 

[Lydia]

Welcome to tri 2! Good luck with your scan tomorrow! Dopplers are great but you can't always trust them. They often say that it's the best to start using a doppler around 16 weeks. Even some midwife don't want to check the heartbeat with 16 weeks as they say it's too early. Hope everything will be okay tomorrow! xx

 

[Thoughtful1]

Good luck with ur scan and welcome to tri two!

 

[charlotte89]

Welcome to tri 2! Good luck with your scan tomorrow! Dopplers are great but you can't always trust them. They often say that it's the best to start using a doppler around 16 weeks. Even some midwife don't want to check the heartbeat with 16 weeks as they say it's too early. Hope everything will be okay tomorrow! xx

i agree with this totally.
my friend kept having bad experiences with her doppler , putting her into panic and going for emergency scans all the time.
i think it is up to the individual but i think dopplers nowadays are just there to check if babys heartbeat is still there n that cant be healthy on mums.
im abit of a worry arse so thats why i probably think like this! lol i record my babys heartbeat on my phone every time i go and see the midwife and i just listen to it as many times as i want its so lovely you could actually go sleep to the noise haha x