Today would have been my 12 week scan

Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by Helven, Jun 20, 2013.

  1. Helven

    Helven Well-Known Member

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    I feel numb, sad and angry today. Knowing that it would have been today that I would have been expecting to see my perfectly formed baby but instead I would have got the same terrible news that I got 5 weeks ago.

    I know there is nothing anyone can say or do and that in time it may not hurt so bad but today is just a very sad day.

    We are TTC again but as it took 5 years the first time, I am not holding my breath.
     
  2. laurat

    laurat Well-Known Member

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    Xxxx Thinking of you honey!
     
  3. Iwant3

    Iwant3 Well-Known Member

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    it's a hard day, those milestones are always harder! i had a follow up appt at the EPU after my 10week mc on the day i was supposed to go for my 12 week scan! :( and next week is the due date for the first bean I lost - am dreading it (it's also my birthday).

    thinking of you....
     
  4. Balthazar1275

    Balthazar1275 Well-Known Member

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    Thinking of you, these milestones just make the healing process even harder. My 12 week scan should of been in 12 days time. I am dreading that day approaching.

    Michelle x
     
  5. Mummy2toddler

    Mummy2toddler Well-Known Member

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    Thinking of you. I also found milestones hard with both of my losses xxxxxx
     
  6. lozzalozza

    lozzalozza Well-Known Member

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    Milestones are awful I had my d&c on the date of my 12 week scan. Not how I planned to meet bubba :-( take care xxx
     
  7. Helven

    Helven Well-Known Member

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    Thanks ladies, I handled it by getting very drunk, crying ALOT and listening to sad songs...so basically I did not handle it!!!
     
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    Those dates are hard. I had a chemical last summer that really upset me. I got pregnant again the next cycle so I was 8 months pregnant on what would have been my due date. I still cried.
     
  9. T84

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    How are you going helven? Milestones are always hard. I hadn't taken the reminder out my phone for my scan appt and when phone rang and it flashed up on screen I was devastated. I can only hope that I'm pregnant again for due date in dec, or it'll all seem for nothing. Take care hon x x
     
  10. Helven

    Helven Well-Known Member

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    Thanks T84, I really hope you fall pregnant again soon. I have been trying, not had first period yet. I don't know when that will come (hopefully it won't) but I am sure it will take a while to fall again. Xxxxx
     

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