We currently have DS who is 2 and a half and DD who just turned one. Lately all I seem to think about is when will be best to TTC number 3. We have always wanted more than 2 (3 maybe 4) and after the 18 month age gap between DS and DD I swore we'd leave a longer gap between the next one but then the more I think about it I don't want to leave it too much longer as I don't want DS and DD to be really close and then number 3 all on their own (especially if we don't have any more after that). So we decided that we'd probably start trying around late July/August which would mean there would be just over a 2 year age gap if we fell straight away. But then all I think about is what if we postpone trying but then it takes us forever to be successful, maybe we should start right away incase it takes a while? But then typically what if we start right away and fall pregnant straight away, it would be a smaller gap than we'd like although don't get me wrong obviously we would just be pleased to be blessed with a 3rd baby! It's happened both ways to us previously, DS took 8 months of TTC (which I know is nothing for some of u poor long term ttcers) but then DD happened straight away which is why we ended up with such a small gap. Anyway I guess I'm just venting more than anything but any opinions welcome please!