This is not something i know too much about but im hoping someone here might have some idea... We have been following SMEP which basically means you BD every other day during fertile time until a pos opk then you do every night for 3 nights... So my question is this... Tmi coming up... When you BD every day for those days (and i know they dont necessarily recommend every day throughout entire cycle to make sure quality is good), do you notice his swimmers less n less each day ? This might be a strange question and im sure we've all noticed when hes abstained for a few days, it can be significantly more, but ive never noticed so little. I asked him and he shocked me by telling me that some times he doesnt ejaculate when he orgasms.... Is that usual ? So after 3 nights on the trot, i didnt notice any 'dribbling' out of me and he said he did orgasm (as i thought he had) - i was so surprised... I guess i wonder if nothing 'comes out' sometimes this must surely effect our chances of ttc ?? Anyone else experienced this ? Should i be concernd with his fertility ? Hope not... Me at 37 and he at 28, i always assumed it would be me IF we had issues falling straight away..