Being as I'm now at that impatient stage I thought I would have a check to see if i could feel my cervix.....yes I know cervical changes can happen really fast or you can be dilated for weeks etc etc...and you shouldnt mess about up there.,....but ya know, curiousity and all that......I'd be FAR too squeamish to attempt to poke into it or actually check dilation but i wondered if i could even reach it and if it was at 'nose' 'pursed lips' or 'soft lips' stage.......well i did manage to find it and it is very very squashy...... question is.....does that mean anything being as i have had 2 vaginal deliveries? I know that with previous vaginal deliveries it would always be slightly dilated so that wouldnt mean anything, but does having previous births mean it would be squashy or does that mean its started to shorten/soften for labour?