threatening a 7 months pregnant woman!

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Im being driven round the bend I dont know what to do. On Monday around 1.00pm my mum came round saw I was stressed over the loud music being played next door, so went to ask if they could turn it lower. The girl didnt answer about 10 mins later the girl from next door rang the door bell holding her 2 year old, my mum answerd as I was sorting out Zack. The girl started shouting and swearing, my mum tried to calm her down but the girl started bad mouthing me calling me a whore and saying I was a bad mother becuase I was having another child. She says I have drug dealers coming all the time :shock: and a different man every night. My mum obviously didnt believe her and said she'd made it all up.

Anyway, later the girl and her mother rang my door bell, my mum answerd it and the girls mother was saying that I was a whore etc, basicly all the things the girl had said. The girls mother said 'I dont care if your pregnant ill f****** have you and your mother' with that I pulled zack into the house and told my mum to come inside. The girls mother then smached my mum on the nose and my mum shut the door.

I called the police, they arrived spoke to me and the girl and her mother next door. As soon as the police had left the girls mother shouted through my letter box, 'when you come out here you whore ill f****** kill you, ill be waiting' then she stood outside my house shouting abuse and treating to kill us etc. So I called the police again. Meanwhile the girl and her mother stood outside talking to my upstairs neighbours, who I have had problems with before. The police waited round the corner till it had all died down then came back, meanwhile the girl and her mother got in the car and drove off. :x the police said they waited till it had died down because they didnt want to stur anything up!! :x :x and there was me thinking that the police are there to protect. The police have told me not to be alone in the house as they are worried for my safety. So OH bless him hasnt left my side. But today I have totaly gone off my rocker because now the upstairs neighbours have started playing their music again :wall:

Ive contacted my housing association and told them everything, but they seem to be taking the piss and not doing anything. Ive asked to be moved. But the stupid housing officer wants me to 'talk it through with my neighbours' after my neighbours have told me if I leave my house im dead. They think im going to talk it through??? Anyone who can threaten a pregnat woman is totaly out of their mind.

Im back to keeping a diary for Enviromental health :( they say thats all I can do. So in the meantime ill left going out of my mind :cry:
 
Bloody Hell Honey :(

You poor thing.

That is terrible. Can you not stay anywhere else? With your mum or somebody close?

Has your OH tried talking to them?

Sending you huge :hug:
 
omg and i thought i had a hard time with my neighbours!

you poor wee thing, thats such a shame you must be in peices. Dont give up though keep you're diaries and keep at the housing agency etc.

that is disgusting behaviour..some people are just pure scum.

Take care huni

cas xx
 
aww hunny thats absoulty horrible, stuiped coucil, Keep your chin up hunny, everything will work out for you. :hug:
 
Thanks girls, just keeping myself to myself. Trying to stay optimistic, but failing. Anyone got any other ideas? Anything I havent tried yet? Feel ive hit a brick wall :(
 
Violet thats terrible :hug:

Keep on insisting you want to be moved, what a vile family!
 
find a harley davidson forum and give them all the address saying that them people said that all harley drivers are big fat ugly trucking biker wannabes...that might work :wink:

This is not what i think about harley drivers by the way lol....
 
Hi Violet Glow, I am an Antisocial Behaviour Housing Officer for my local council, and deal with this everyday.

Your housing association has an obligation to deal with and investigate cases of asb being faced by its tenants. They should be taking this seriously. We use diaries 2, but not when the Police are involved, they should be contacting other people in your stair to obtain coroborration and then take further action.

If you wanted to move, it may take time, but you should get extra priority for harassment.

In the mean time, you call the Police out at every time she approaches you, threatens you, or you feel threatened, the more the Police are involved the better. (means ur Housing Association will have to deal with it!)

If the Police tell your HAssoc urr life is in danger-they have to move you!

PM if you need anymore info.

My division's moto is:

Antisocial behaviour-together we're tackling it!
 
babe thats awfull i really really fel for you. and your poor mum bless her.

im usually first to defend my self if any one comes mouthin at me they get just as much back or even worse, byt now im a mother im so changed. ok i can defend myself but i cant defend my family 24/7 what if they set my house on fire while we are all here? i no its extreme but i worry like hell you must be so scarred. dont no what to say? if it was me ild go kick 10dozen of shit out of her, but your preg and have your lil boy so just keep it low if you have to kiss ass do it just to protect you and you family. i dont no what type of people they are, would you not be able to knock the door when its quiet and say just want to sort things out? nothing worse then watching your back while pregnant

big hug :hug:
 
Thanks for the advice K X ... think its just a matter of keeping filling in the diarys at the moment :( As far as my housing assoc goes I think im going to contact a solicitor, because my housing officer appears to be usless.

lol at the harley davidson forum cassi ..tempted to try that :lol:

Dionne I know what you mean, since ive had zack ive become more chilled about fighting back. The old me would have wanted to kill her and her mother :twisted: ....but the me now just ended up in tears calling the police. Zack was so protective he would have killed their arses if id let him lol

Theres noway im going to make contact with my neighbours. After what they have said and the threats they have made I wouldnt put anything past them. but to threaten me and say they dont care if im pregnant, they will still kill me :shock: ..ill be staying away from them me thinks :?

Its just really anoying and upsetting because I feel so usless, feel as if I should be doing more :(
 
:hug: thats horrible hun.... why are they shouting at you?? what have you done?? xxx
 
Keely said:
:hug: thats horrible hun.... why are they shouting at you?? what have you done?? xxx

I dont know, I think their just stupid idiots. :x
 
hope ur housing people pull there fingers out there arses soon hun xxxxx
 
Thats horrible.
Get all the evidence you can i.e tape recodrings of the abbuse or the music, and even video diary if you have a camcorder.
It must be so scarry especially when preggers
 
I know some large biker organisations in south wales :wink:

Seriously, follow KX's advice and keep on at housing, those who SHOUT LOUDEST get heard.
 
Hi

hun that is aweful i hope you getted sorted soon must be really scary for you .
Katrina
 
OMG i cannot believe what you are being made to go through?!

what the f*** to i pay my taxes for when the Housing people and police wont protect a pregnant woman and her little boy form nutters threatening to kill them?!

GRRRRRR i am so mad now! who do these people think they are? and how dare the police say they were hiding round the corner till it died down! for all they know it could have been escalating till she attacked you! they should have been stepping in and arresting her for threatening behaviour.

ok i need to go calm down now - i'm sorry sorry hun - no one should be forced to live amongst freaks like that and put up with that behavoir let alone a pregnant mother. i really hope everything gets sorted asap for you.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
If they keep standing outside I would get a video camera and video them and take pictures of them all the time. Not only will you have evidence but if they see you doing it they might even stop cos how annoying would it be someone videoing you all the time.

Hope you get it sorted soon, keep nagging till you get it solved by housing

:hug:
 
Please make a big fuss with housing association! they will do something if you are complaining constantly. Just think how awful it could get when you have a new born baby!
 

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