Has anyone heard the news today? Apparantly, women over the age of 35 who have children are 'defying nature'!! I am outgraged!!!!! If it was unnatural for women to have babies over the age of 35, surely this would be when the menopause starts?? One quote says ' "Women want to have it all", but biology remains unchanged.' They are basically implying that women want to have a career first, then have children later, and this is wrong. I have one word 'NO'. I had my daughter when I was 22, and after years of failed relationships, married a fantastic man in June of this year, and we are now trying for a child. This is nothing to do with my career, my finances, or my age. I am in love and want to complete our family with another (or maybe more) child(ren). I am 35, my DH is 24, my daughter is 12 and I feel 20, so what is wrong with me trying to another??? I'm so mad. Grrrrr!