Help.
She's been bunged up from when she was born and feeding is really stressful for both of us now. She literally cannot breathe when she has the bottle in her mouth and can only manage 60ml then falls asleep then wakes 2 hours later for another 60ml. As you can guess feeding every 2 hours means I'm knackered. We have to prop her up every night to sleep as she seems unable to sleep lying flat and we can hear the snot so she snorts . I've asked HV but she says to just keep feeding little and often. The snot is now a bit bloody as it's been so long but the doctor said it's just inflamed tubes and not to worry. While the tubes are inflamed there is still going to be snot . Poor little thing is waving her arms around when we're trying to feed and she can't breathe and is hungry so is crying. We've tried banana shaped bottle so she is more upright but doesn't help much . I've gone up to the medium flow teats to try to get more down her before she falls asleep which has helped a little.
Any advice please.
She's been bunged up from when she was born and feeding is really stressful for both of us now. She literally cannot breathe when she has the bottle in her mouth and can only manage 60ml then falls asleep then wakes 2 hours later for another 60ml. As you can guess feeding every 2 hours means I'm knackered. We have to prop her up every night to sleep as she seems unable to sleep lying flat and we can hear the snot so she snorts . I've asked HV but she says to just keep feeding little and often. The snot is now a bit bloody as it's been so long but the doctor said it's just inflamed tubes and not to worry. While the tubes are inflamed there is still going to be snot . Poor little thing is waving her arms around when we're trying to feed and she can't breathe and is hungry so is crying. We've tried banana shaped bottle so she is more upright but doesn't help much . I've gone up to the medium flow teats to try to get more down her before she falls asleep which has helped a little.
Any advice please.