I have had the worst xmas so far. So stressful and upsetting and there is still no improvement and my mum is now turning the family against me and I am due in 5 weeks. xmas day night I went for tea with oh to my parents to which my brother and wife went with their 3 dogs. As soon as I arrived my brothers dog cocked his leg up me and peed. Yes may sound funny when you're not in that situation which I can understand, but at the time I was disgusted!! Bro just stood there smirking. I asked for an apology and he f'd at me and called me some unrepeatable names so I replied by calling him fat once (he had already called me this in his rant whilst aggressively waving his hand in my face as if he was about to hit me) this then escalated into him giving an eight month pregnant women a vicious verbal attack until my oh stepped in and asked him to stop upsetting me as by this point as I was in tears and shaking, then my dad intervened and separated them. My mum witnessed it all. My bro turned around and said that it was not his fault he cant have children?? Why this was bought up still astounds me. They have been trying for couple of years so Ive never talked about my 1st pregnancy or anything in front of them. I text bro to try and sort it out and he replied with f u!!! My bro left and we stayed for a couple of hours but the atmos was vile and my mum didnt speak a word to me so we said bye and left. Somehow my bro knew we had gone and went back to my mums? Boxing day came and I rang mum to see if I could still go round whilst oh at footie and she said yes then hung up on me so rang straight back and dad answered and said yes but wait until bro gone...fair enough. Whilst there my mum never spoke, atmos awful and then I got a text from oh that all his mates knew about xmas day night as my brother and his wife had put vile personal attacking rants on facebook about me, my oh and unborn child. I went nuts. This is the ultimate....my mum didnt see anything wrong with this or how he spoke to me. My dad was and still is mortified. I said bye so I didnt leave it awful and rang my oh who left footie to get me as I was beyond upset by now. My mum was going to let me wait outside in the cold for what could have been over an hour! As it stands now my dad and sister are talking to me, I havent had 1 day without crying and my mum isnt talking to me nor has she called to check if Im ok after all the upset. Shes saying my oh isnt welcome ever again in their house, despite him not doing anything other than stop my bro from attacking me, shes now making my dads life hell as he knows we didnt do anything wrong and he cant stand the fact my brother has come out as the injured party. She's basically lying to people about what happened. Im so distressed as my mum is pandering to every need of my brother and wife. My OH is disgusted by my mums treatment of me more so than my brother behaviour as he as always been like that and pathetically hid behind my mum when my oh stood up to him. It seems he can bully me but hides when someone stands up to him. Im now left with the prospect of our baby being raised without a grandma any advice as to what I should do now?