Amy0801
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Hi ladies
Sorry if this is a bit of a moan...
Found of I am pregnant about 25 days ago even though it feels a lot longer than that so I am about 6+4 weeks now. It was a complete shock even though we had been actively ttc. DD is 6 and we don't want her to know until after the 12 week scan so we are not talking about it around her but then we aren't really talking about it when she has gone to bed! I'm scared because I just don't feel excited and im thinking surly I should be excited about having another baby?!?! I am still struggling with anxiety and I don't sleep very well..I have a lot of doubt. DF doesn't have a lot of patience with DD who has ASD..The other day daughter got a bit stressed because she couldn't find the sellotape in the drawer so DF goes in and says to her "it's right there are you thick, thicko!" So I then had to shout at him to say don't say that to her and I just thought omg what are we doing..how will we cope with another especially DF! We barely make it through the month without running out of money so again I'm thinking what are we doing!! I'm so confused but we haven't told anyone yet not even my sister who I am close to so I feel I have no one to talk to
Sorry if this is a bit of a moan...
Found of I am pregnant about 25 days ago even though it feels a lot longer than that so I am about 6+4 weeks now. It was a complete shock even though we had been actively ttc. DD is 6 and we don't want her to know until after the 12 week scan so we are not talking about it around her but then we aren't really talking about it when she has gone to bed! I'm scared because I just don't feel excited and im thinking surly I should be excited about having another baby?!?! I am still struggling with anxiety and I don't sleep very well..I have a lot of doubt. DF doesn't have a lot of patience with DD who has ASD..The other day daughter got a bit stressed because she couldn't find the sellotape in the drawer so DF goes in and says to her "it's right there are you thick, thicko!" So I then had to shout at him to say don't say that to her and I just thought omg what are we doing..how will we cope with another especially DF! We barely make it through the month without running out of money so again I'm thinking what are we doing!! I'm so confused but we haven't told anyone yet not even my sister who I am close to so I feel I have no one to talk to