merlin
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Okay I didn't know where to post this thought in here was as good as anywhere, and I apologise if it turns into a rant, I am currently a pregnant and emotional ladeeee!
My dh has a daughter from his previous relationship, she is almost 5. She has a sister who is 6 and a half she is not my husbands daughter but he was with his ex when she was 6 months old till she was almost 4 ish.
We have both girls every other weekend, the older is very full on and demands all the attention, I and my mil have spoken to my dh about the fact he is going to miss out on his own daughter if he doesn't spend some time alone with her. After all the older one does not call dh dad, she has had contact with her father but isn't at the moment. I have struggled with this myself a lot, the fact that he so desperately wants to have both girls all the time and won't concentrate his time on his own little one, 2 days a fortnight isn't a lot!
This weekend he has hardly spent any time with his own daughter, I have! And he has spent all of today working on the car with the older one helping him whilst little one is indoors with me watching tv while I am trying to get my invoicing done! Shouldnt he be encouraging her to join in and help and get some valuable time out of this weekend?Am I being unreasonable? I will probably re read this later and think I am!
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My dh has a daughter from his previous relationship, she is almost 5. She has a sister who is 6 and a half she is not my husbands daughter but he was with his ex when she was 6 months old till she was almost 4 ish.
We have both girls every other weekend, the older is very full on and demands all the attention, I and my mil have spoken to my dh about the fact he is going to miss out on his own daughter if he doesn't spend some time alone with her. After all the older one does not call dh dad, she has had contact with her father but isn't at the moment. I have struggled with this myself a lot, the fact that he so desperately wants to have both girls all the time and won't concentrate his time on his own little one, 2 days a fortnight isn't a lot!
This weekend he has hardly spent any time with his own daughter, I have! And he has spent all of today working on the car with the older one helping him whilst little one is indoors with me watching tv while I am trying to get my invoicing done! Shouldnt he be encouraging her to join in and help and get some valuable time out of this weekend?Am I being unreasonable? I will probably re read this later and think I am!
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