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Am in tears again, all this is so not good for the baby, and I wondered if anyone else was going through it?
My husband is really starting to resent me being at home and doing nothing. He works ridiculously long hours as a chef, about 60 hrs a week, and its a really pressured stressful job as well, and he comes home highly strung out and tired and starts on me. What have I been doing all day? Why hasnt this been done or that? He's a bit ocd so he starts cleaning the house (which i thought was already tidy) at midnight, then he sits down to eat at 1 am, then has to be up again at 7.30.
I know he's being totally unreasonable, but I feel desperately sorry for the extra pressure I am putting him under. Unfortunately my hormones are so high that if he shouts at me I respond and yell back. Last night i threw the entire fruit bowl accross the room and the apples exploded and made the mess 100 times worse!
Is anyone else going through this? How do I make it better? I really want to be the perfect housewife but I'm not, I'm rubbish, and I'm sooooo tired that I just seem to sit here and cry about it, which isnt helpful!
My husband is really starting to resent me being at home and doing nothing. He works ridiculously long hours as a chef, about 60 hrs a week, and its a really pressured stressful job as well, and he comes home highly strung out and tired and starts on me. What have I been doing all day? Why hasnt this been done or that? He's a bit ocd so he starts cleaning the house (which i thought was already tidy) at midnight, then he sits down to eat at 1 am, then has to be up again at 7.30.
I know he's being totally unreasonable, but I feel desperately sorry for the extra pressure I am putting him under. Unfortunately my hormones are so high that if he shouts at me I respond and yell back. Last night i threw the entire fruit bowl accross the room and the apples exploded and made the mess 100 times worse!
Is anyone else going through this? How do I make it better? I really want to be the perfect housewife but I'm not, I'm rubbish, and I'm sooooo tired that I just seem to sit here and cry about it, which isnt helpful!