As you lot may know now last night was one hell of surprise. My hubby mom was in coma for a month and half and came out from as she was recovering slowly thought she could get better because of slow response shes making. all last week, she could heard us and laugh a little but yesterday after last visit few hours later BOMB, phone call delivering bad news and said " she passed away!" my heart stop just froze for 2 secs but automatically thought of my hubby since hes too attached to his mom, it will reflect him even more and hit him hard. How would you comfort a guy that grieve so much and what would you say and do to make it bit better?