Can i ask you what " it is gaping" means? that is what the m/w wrote on my notes but i did not really like her so did not dare asking what it meant. I looked in the mirror and it looks like my vagina is in 2 parts, is it this? My bits are still sore and sometimes itchy. It smells quite bad too but I think it is the blood I am losing. What worries me too is that I have shooting pains down my anus and the top of it, like my contractions and it is not agreable.
Weeing is ok but poohing is a bit of a nightmare. since giving birth back to back, I have been a bit traumatised byt he pushing and the nuscle is still sore so it makes things difficult.
Anyway, i stop complaning now lol