Frankie_Lou
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Me and OH have decided to keep this pregnancy a secret for as long as poss as I work in a busy pub in town where everyone feels like everything is their business and goes on at you constantly. I hated my last pregnancy because of it so decided this time to just wait until its obvious. I've told select family members on both sides, my boss (he's also my uncle) and 2 of the girls I work with. I trust all of them.
Today whilst stood outside a shop in town with a group of ladies who go to the baby group with us a woman walked up to me and congratulated me on my pregnancy. Very loudly in front of everyone. She saw my shocked face and said she was sorry but C who I work with has told her and several others all about it so she thought it was common knowledge. C is not someone I've told and would in actual fact be the last person in the world I'd tell.
I've rung work and told my boss/uncle that she's been spreading the gossip and he asked if I'd like him to have a word with her. I said that was probably best as the mood I'm in if its me who has to have a word it won't be pretty! lol
She's just text me to say she's heard the rumour but swears she has not repeated it to anyone and promises me she won't. I'm so angry that this has got out and I know it's gonna spread like wildfire. I haven't even told my fucking dad yet whose out of the country at the minute so I can't even ring and warn him first.
I actually think she'd be safer if she left the bloody country for a bit! Sorry rant over lol
Today whilst stood outside a shop in town with a group of ladies who go to the baby group with us a woman walked up to me and congratulated me on my pregnancy. Very loudly in front of everyone. She saw my shocked face and said she was sorry but C who I work with has told her and several others all about it so she thought it was common knowledge. C is not someone I've told and would in actual fact be the last person in the world I'd tell.
I've rung work and told my boss/uncle that she's been spreading the gossip and he asked if I'd like him to have a word with her. I said that was probably best as the mood I'm in if its me who has to have a word it won't be pretty! lol
She's just text me to say she's heard the rumour but swears she has not repeated it to anyone and promises me she won't. I'm so angry that this has got out and I know it's gonna spread like wildfire. I haven't even told my fucking dad yet whose out of the country at the minute so I can't even ring and warn him first.
I actually think she'd be safer if she left the bloody country for a bit! Sorry rant over lol