My husband and I have been TTC for four months now and I know its not long, but I'm starting to become stressed that its never going to happen. I have a 2 yr old son and have had a previous miscarriage, so know that I can get pregnant, but I'm worried that because I'm older now (34), there's something wrong. To make things more stressful, my hubby often refuses to 'make babies' because he is too tired and he said last month that he finds it a turn off as I'm so obsessed. He has said he wants another child, but is prepared to just let it happen eventually, whereas I just want to be pregnant now. I know I'm being irrational, but I just find I'm becoming more and more resentful towards him and I'm becoming very stressed about the whole thing. I just don't know who is right or wrong in this - what should I do? All my other friends are ttc, and their partners are delighted that their wives are demanding more sex - which makes me wonder what is wrong with our relationship. Can anyone give me any advice about how to handle this?