So worried I'm sending myself crazy!

Discussion in 'First Trimester' started by Natalilly1288, Jun 11, 2013.

  1. Natalilly1288

    Natalilly1288 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 5, 2013
    Messages:
    2,448
    Likes Received:
    0
    After getting my bfp on thu I can't stop doing tests I'm sending myself nuts as the lines don't seem to be getting much darker and I've not really got any symptoms except I'm so tired and emotional do u think I'm being silly it it could be another mc? Xx
     
  2. Holly1991

    Holly1991 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2012
    Messages:
    1,667
    Likes Received:
    0
    The lines don't always get darker very fast try to relax and stop taking the tests. They wil make you worry more. I'd leave it atleast a week before you try test again.

    Relax my dear!! :)

    Xx
     
  3. MrsS143

    MrsS143 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 9, 2013
    Messages:
    3,325
    Likes Received:
    0
    If you're concerned call your go for blood tests to see if hcg levels are going up

    How far are you?.
    Digi tests will tell you if its going up too x
     
  4. Milly76

    Milly76 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Oct 25, 2012
    Messages:
    1,926
    Likes Received:
    0
    Is so hard not to panic lady - I've been trying to decide whether to do any more tests - only done the 2 on the day I found out so far!

    I just ran to the loo expecting to see blood - but it was just loadsa CM!! AAGGHHHH!

    xx
     
  5. Natalilly1288

    Natalilly1288 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 5, 2013
    Messages:
    2,448
    Likes Received:
    0
    I'm 4 weeks 5 days i need to stop it I'm driving myself barmy feel so worried :-( I just want this more than anything I do t think I could cope with anymore heart break :-( xxxx
     
  6. Sophie_P

    Sophie_P Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2013
    Messages:
    6,101
    Likes Received:
    0
    If your testing everyday you won't see much difference than if you did testing every two days when the hormone level doubles. You need to try and chill out hun. I was testing everyday and couldn't see progress, so I waited three days and the ic line was equal and i've not tested since. You need that cut off point for your sanity. Xx
     
  7. Natalilly1288

    Natalilly1288 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 5, 2013
    Messages:
    2,448
    Likes Received:
    0
    I no Ive just never felt so anxious and worried about anything ever! I need to chill I'm going to try n get in at the docs on thu when it's my day off I'm just worried I haven't got a lot of symptoms yet (even though I may regret saying this soon! ) xx
     
  8. MrsS143

    MrsS143 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 9, 2013
    Messages:
    3,325
    Likes Received:
    0
    What does more testing do other than tell you that you are?
    We have zero control over what happens
    At best we can take care of ourselves to give the best chance
    We just need to enjoy what we have when we have it x
     
  9. Sophie_P

    Sophie_P Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2013
    Messages:
    6,101
    Likes Received:
    0
    I haven't got many symptoms, we get surges and it varies from day to day x
     
  10. mrz85

    mrz85 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Dec 17, 2011
    Messages:
    5,503
    Likes Received:
    0
    I did about 20 tests if not more drove my self mad !!! I have had 2 scans and all is well !! not all the lines where super but clear BFP
     
  11. Natalilly1288

    Natalilly1288 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 5, 2013
    Messages:
    2,448
    Likes Received:
    0
    It's the ic ones that aren't a very good line I can barely see a line on them I need to stop testing and let nature take its course :-( I think I'm scared more than anything if this ends up a mc there is something wrong with me I'm scared of going to the doctors as that's what happened last time I tested there and I got no line started bleeding the day after :-( sorry 4 keep moaning I bet everyone is scared I just can't enjoy it at the min as I'm just so worried about these faint lines xxxx
     
  12. Sophie_P

    Sophie_P Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2013
    Messages:
    6,101
    Likes Received:
    0
    Can you post a picture? Are you testing with first wee hun? X
     
  13. Mummy2toddler

    Mummy2toddler Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Aug 22, 2012
    Messages:
    3,586
    Likes Received:
    0
    I know it's hard but stop testing. It doesn't help I promise! With my son I tested until I was 11 weeks every single day and I had a negative around 10 weeks pregnant oh my god I was petrified spent £20 on pregnancy tests turns out I was pregnant still but my hcg was too high or something like that. Save your money for when your baby's born pregnancy tests aren't cheap and if you're worried speak to your doctor xx
     
  14. Natalilly1288

    Natalilly1288 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 5, 2013
    Messages:
    2,448
    Likes Received:
    0
    The ones I tested this morning were with first wee but then I've tested again when I got in but I've chucked them in the bin as I keep looking at them and driving myself mad Ive def got to go to the docs and see what they think I've had no pain or spotting but then I never did last time I just went to docs thinking everything was fine and bam! Bfn :-( I'm a nitemare got to start thinking positive! Xxx
     
  15. Sophie_P

    Sophie_P Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2013
    Messages:
    6,101
    Likes Received:
    0
    Yes hun, stressing is not good. Always here to chat xx
     
  16. Natalilly1288

    Natalilly1288 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 5, 2013
    Messages:
    2,448
    Likes Received:
    0
    Thanks Hun I appreciate it keep your fx for me xxxx
     
  17. Sophie_P

    Sophie_P Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2013
    Messages:
    6,101
    Likes Received:
    0
    You should start your own journal hun to note your concerns and worries, might make you feel better x
     
  18. BBaby

    BBaby Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jul 28, 2012
    Messages:
    844
    Likes Received:
    0
    I didn't get a strong line on ic until 21dpo!! So wouldn't worry!

    I can talk ..... Nearly 11 weeks and had to stop myself buying a test yesterday (I kid you not) xxx
     
    #18 BBaby, Jun 11, 2013
    Last edited: Jun 11, 2013
  19. Natalilly1288

    Natalilly1288 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 5, 2013
    Messages:
    2,448
    Likes Received:
    0
    Thankyou so much ladies I really appreciate it maybe I'm just over reacting only time will tell what will happen I just feel so alone as I don't want to tell anyone just yet incase it is bad news then I've let everyone down again and I don't think my oh really understands he says he's trying not to get hopes up after last time I'm so glad I can talk to you ladies on here xxxx
     
  20. Sophie_P

    Sophie_P Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2013
    Messages:
    6,101
    Likes Received:
    0
    Aww hun you wouldn't let anyone down I promise you. It's very hard, this time is so lonely because you can only tell one person but it won't be like this forever. I'm sure you have your sticky baby xx
     

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice