So scared :(

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  1. Lilmisshopeful

    Lilmisshopeful Well-Known Member

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    I'm so scared right now. Oh is at work till Saturday and I'm now doubled up in pain. Even tho I knew it was coming I didn't want to be alone when it did :( I so wanted the doctor to be wrong. Can't even talk to oh to let him now incase he could get compassionate leave as he is on duty. So scared right now :(
     
  2. MrsS143

    MrsS143 Well-Known Member

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    Oh hun we are all here for you
    *hugs*
     
  3. purple_pianos

    purple_pianos Well-Known Member

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    Hey,

    So sorry to read this - are you sure what you think is happening is definately right? Haven't seen any other posts so not sure what Dr etc said. Is there anyone else you can call to come and be with you until you can call your OH?

    Take care of yourself xx
     
  4. Geekachublog

    Geekachublog Well-Known Member

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    *Hugs*
    Take care of yourself, we are here if you need us.
    No matter what, I'd definitely try to speak to your OH xx
     
  5. ellesbells

    ellesbells Well-Known Member

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    Poor thing :( just do whatever you can to be comfortable and give yourself a massive hug! Have you tried a bath / hit water bottle and a crap load of chocolate. Watch a tear jerker film. You can force your tears to another area then too. Hugs xx
     
  6. Sprk

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    Hugs Hun. Take care of yourself and remember we're here for you.
     
  7. Gaelforce

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    You're not alone x we're all here if u need to chat x

    i second the hot water bottle xxx
     
  8. Daley

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    We're all hear for you! Is there no one you can come and get to sit with you?

    Phone your epu for advice Hun x
     
  9. MrsCK

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    oh hun how awful, we're all here for you if you need a chat xx
     
  10. Lilmisshopeful

    Lilmisshopeful Well-Known Member

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    Hi guys thanks so much really does mean a lot. I've just drove to my parents I couldn't face being alone. Oh is army and on armed duty can't talk to him till the morning. Don't want him panicking while using a weapon if you get me. I'll be ok with my mum. I forgot how much this hurts. Will call the epu here in the morning they have self referral here so easier to get in. Thanks again really makes something so difficult a touch easier knowing people care x
     
  11. Lilmisshopeful

    Lilmisshopeful Well-Known Member

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    Yes Im sure I remember the pain now I've mc before several times. My levels are low and dropped last week. The doctor said to low to support a pregnancy and I will not make 10 weeks. So I knew it was coming just part of me hoped he was wrong x
     
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    We're always here, of u ever need a chat, there's always someone on the forum at any time of the day or night, take care


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  13. Daley

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    Thinking of you Hun xxxx
     
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    I hope you're ok take care of yourself x
     
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    Thinking of you today - hugs
     
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    Thinking of you today. I hope you are doing alright and am glad you went to your mum so you aren't alone. We are always here for you.
     
  17. Lilmisshopeful

    Lilmisshopeful Well-Known Member

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    Hi guys. See a doc early this morning and he thinks the pain in an old cyst on my ovary has re filled and is going to burst again. He said my cervix is closed but they wouldn't scan me they said no reason to scan. Going to stay with my parents till Friday just incase and just see how things go. Thanks all for your kind words it means so much to know there's people there to help through the bad times x
     
  18. Daley

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    Still got my fingers crossed for you! Your little bean is a fighter x
     
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    That's good news the cervix is closed, I've heard cysts are common. Hope it all works out for you x
     
  20. Lilmisshopeful

    Lilmisshopeful Well-Known Member

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    Thank you so much. I'm hoping so. Got midwife on the 5th and she will arrange a scan for next day. That's 9 weeks and again at 10 weeks. Hoping for a stubborn bean with a strong grip x
     

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