I am not confused about my pregnancy ladies i want this more than anything in the world. Me and the OH constantly argue about past issues which he cannot seem to get past nor do i think he can actually forgive. He says he wants to be a good dad and that dads are there no matter what. I do agree with him but, i dont agree that if we stay together then it will benefit the baby if were constantly at each others throat at least 3 times a week. It's always the same thing we argue about. I havent been faithful in the relationship and i told him last year around august time. I fell pregnant with his baby in Novemeber and found out December which was a shock considering that we were on the list for IVF. He decided then we would start the year off as a new year new start. But yet it's the same. I am frightened to death that the arguing and the shouting and slamming doors is going to either effect my mental state or effect my pregnancy. I walked out last night at 11 oclock and stayed at my dads. i really really dont know what to do for the best. He says he cant forget but wants to forgive me. But i feel that he cant i that he thinks when the baby is here all arguements will just completely stop. It deosnt work like that, and i was brought up in a broken home where my parents argued and fought, i dont want that for my child, i would rather him or her have two parents that look after them and love them that arnt arguing all the time. What do i do?!?!