Hi all, I'm not in a good place right now. it's such a long story, but when I was pregnant I found out that my partner had been seeing somebody else the whole time he had been seeing me. He was torn between the two of us. He always said that he would be there 100% for me and our child once he arrived. Since the birth (12 weeks ago), he has moved further and further away and I am left as the sole carer all the time. It's as if he doesn't even think there is anything wrong in that. He says he loves us and he cares for us, but he doesn't seem to have any time for us. Tonight I told him I needed his help, he told me he had no petrol to get to my house. Now he's blatently lying about where he is and has switched his phone off. I'm actually feeling desperate with grief about it all and struggling to cope. I can only imagine that despite him having no petrol to come and see his son, he has actually gone to see this other woman. I am shocked by all of this. How can he be like this? I still haven't told my family about it all and they think we are still together. I just don't know what to do. I want him out of my life but he won't go away. I still love him, but he has shown such disgusting behaviours and it's clear he isn't there for us at all . How do you get over something like this?? Anybody got any wisdom to share?