Background: I'm not actually single, very much with my youngest's dad, however, he lives 4,000 miles away. Currently (temporarily) living at my parents, hopefully my house should be ready in the next month. 3yo goes to bed 6:30/7pm. 11mo at 7:30/8pm. 11 screams when I leave the room. My parents currently watch her while I put 3 to bed (which she's fine with, she screams if I leave her alone, like to take plates to the kitchen/whatever). It takes around 30 mins to put 3 to bed. Bedtime story, etc. How the heck am I supposed to handle bedtimes once I finally get in my own house? Any ideas appreciated. (if I try bringing 11 in the room with us for 3s bedtime, they both just play about. I tried it for a week and it made bedtimes hell).