As the title says really.
Got my anomoly scan on Monday and we had been planning to take our 3yr old along as she's so excited about the baby I thought it would be a lovely experience for her. Now I'm doubting myself (having a hormonal week!) and after talking to a colleague at work who found out at her scan that her baby had serious problems that resulted inher decideing to terminate I'm having second thoughts.
Most of me says to take the chance because the chances of there being a problem are low and it would be a lovely thing to do together but part of me thinks it would be unfair to put Lucy in the position of "seeing" her baby brother or sister and then potentially there being a problem.
I just don't know, and my hormones are not helping as I'm getting overly emotional about the slightest thing!
Got my anomoly scan on Monday and we had been planning to take our 3yr old along as she's so excited about the baby I thought it would be a lovely experience for her. Now I'm doubting myself (having a hormonal week!) and after talking to a colleague at work who found out at her scan that her baby had serious problems that resulted inher decideing to terminate I'm having second thoughts.
Most of me says to take the chance because the chances of there being a problem are low and it would be a lovely thing to do together but part of me thinks it would be unfair to put Lucy in the position of "seeing" her baby brother or sister and then potentially there being a problem.
I just don't know, and my hormones are not helping as I'm getting overly emotional about the slightest thing!