Should I still bother with midwife appt am I too negative??

[1986princess]

Hi girls! After the scan the other day putting me at 5 instead of 7 week just gestational sac and nothing else visable on scan, meaning 2nd lot of bloods today! I am feeling negative! I wasn't going to go to epu coz I know cramps are normal and I just panicked! Think really I just wanted reasurement n for her to say everything is fine but mainly she said too early to tell or we will have to test hcg levels in bloods to see if development is still happening! I have moments when I think it's fine I'm just early next week n week after scan will show good news n then I have negativity like it's going to have stopped which il be crushed. I have my first midwife appt tommorow morn I'm wondering whether to go or not? Wish I never went to epu if I'd have left it maybe things would just work out fine without the worry if it is unnecessary! I don't know x

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Still go to your midwife hunny, explain how your feeling and she maybe able to give you some information and put your mind at rest until your bloods come back, sending you massive x x

 

[Lilelephant]

I agree with M2A try and be positive! trust me i know how hard it is to be positive when you are worried.

 

[1986princess]

Thankyou I suppose it would be stupid to not go like I'm giving up without really knowing! X think all in all I think waiting alot longer is better than going for early assessment! Thanx for your advice x

 

[1986princess]

Yeah thanx mrsmc really feel for you st the moment with what your going through and work causing you extra stress. Hopefully we will both have good news to come xxx

 

[Lilelephant]

princess....me too fx for us both!