I'm actually having two scans next week because I'm taking part in a research study. I do want to find out if it's a boy or girl but my OH is coming to the second scan with me as this was arranged ages ago. When I was asked to go for the research scan a few days before the proper one, I asked mum to come with me. OH things I should not find out until the second scan with him. I sort of want to wait so we can find out together. But, what if baby hides the bits on the second scan??? Should I just find at the first one?? What would you do?