Hi ladies. I'm in a relationship with someone who i'm head over heels in love with. I just have a few concerns We have been together nearly 3 months. We are official ! He has his son full time as his ex is just a pisshead excuse my language 🙊 She lets his son down all the time so i understand he is very protective over him and that he is a great dad. He tells me he loves me and that he has been missing me this week whilst he has been working nights. He always comes to mine and we go out socially together but only to pub lol he has never actually asked to take me on a date but i understand money is tight with just getting over the christmas period. He has only started recently asking me to go down to his when his child isn't there, but i've declined on two occasions as i don't want to be easy accessible to him seeing as though its always on his terms when we meet. I mentioned the other day about meeting his son, gradually just as a friend! And he said he doesn't introduce to his son but he's not saying at all and will eventually. I didn't say anything! He is meeting my family this sunday as its my grandads 90th and he seems really excited about it. But the thing is he has not mentioned me meeting his?! He also told me after our meal he couldn't stay at mine cos he has his son. He is 10 years older than me so maybe set in his ways. But surely i deserve to know where i stand and where this is going ? What do you think i should do? Its making me feel crap cos i do love him. I've been understanding and give him space so it's not as though i nag.